It’s Boring Being Cool All The Time
There’s two little girls playing, blowing bubbles, laughing and clapping—they’re have the time of their lives, the way children do in every moment. And two older guys—late twenties, early thirties—are...
View ArticleChoosing To Love
If you want to be happy, choose love. Love is bigger than ego, or angst. It’s bigger than excitement, or convenience or pain. Love is bigger than tragedy or terror. Love is the ultimate trump card....
View ArticleMy Wish For You
My wish for you, is that you won’t find what you’re looking for. The Universe has much grander intentions for you. I hope you’ll wander. And if you don’t have the desire or courage to wander, I hope...
View ArticleEmotional Storms
The art of patience is really just about controlling our perception of time. This month, I’m practicing patience. More aptly, I am being taught patience. Sometimes I am more open to the lesson than...
View ArticleSix Impossible Things
My best friend says that time is like the Cheshire Cat and in a lot of ways I agree. Time can be both vexing and comforting. It’s familiar, and strange. It’s there, then gone, coming only to leave. And...
View ArticleDigging Up The Past
When we go digging, we have to expect that things will come up. That’s the point of digging, isn’t it? This month I’ve been doing a lot of digging. An emotional excavation of sorts. I’ve been analyzing...
View ArticleBeing Open To Love
This is the first time in my life that I’ve been healthy enough, together enough, to offer my whole—unbroken, unfragmented—heart to someone. This is the first time I’ve gone into a relationship without...
View ArticleCourageously Pursuing Happiness
This moment is preparing you for the grandest love of your life. Every moment of our lives is historical. This is the stuff of legends. A hundred thousand, thousand, moments strung together like...
View ArticleThe Unforgivable
There will be mistakes that you won’t be able to recover from. There will be hugely regrettable instances that people won’t forgive you for. As sorry as you are, as much as you’ve changed because of...
View ArticleLife Is A Team Sport
What’s the worst feeling you’ve ever felt?—and what would you sacrifice in order to avoid feeling it? Would you give up friends? Quit your job? Drop a class? Change schools? Ostracize your family? Move...
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